It's pretty much disheartening that it's our so-called uncles, aunties, older cousins and some other closely related people who are a few years older than we are that end up violating and snatching the sexual rights of our little boys and girls.
Unfortunately some of these young chaps end up losing their confidence and self respect; they throw their bodies about like commodities sold in the market because they've being deprived of the choice of losing their virginity at their own will from a very tender age.
Some think it's no longer worth the "saving" I could as well go on with the trend then they keep on doing what they had been exposed to by their abuser and even some end up abusing much younger ones because they feel "I was violated and he/she went scot free so I can violate someone else and still go scot free".
Then some others go an entirely different way from the others, they start to flee from anything close to the opposite gender because they dread even just the thought of ever getting intimate with anyone because they start to relive the moments of agony from the past if they go anywhere close to the opposite gender.
As far as the whole molestation thing goes I believe there is no justification whatsoever because it is a God-given right and choice to choose with whom and when you want to break your congenital celibacy.
Nobody ever outgrows the stigma caused by this assault thingi because it's not just a tale it's an experience, an unwanted part of an individual's live as in it's crazy people that do that stuff to innocent young people infact anyone at all no matter the age.
Meanwhile you can never tell who was sexually abused by just seeing the person so it's going to be really nice to mind some kinds of things you say and do to people because you might just be reminding them of that experience they try hard to live with everyday without having to break down in pain and tears.
